Mrs. Francy A Doelling

Funeral Information

Home: Cedarbrook, NJ
Date of Death: November 17, 2011
Place of Birth: Atco, NJ
Birthdate: January 21, 1972
Age: 39
Mass: Saturday, November 26, 2011 10:00 AM Christ The Redeemer Parish Assumption Church, Atco, NJ
Visitation: Friday, November 25, 2011 7:00 PM to 9:00PM at Costantino Funeral Home, Berlin Boro, NJ; Saturday, November 26, 2011 8:30 TO 9:30 AM at Costantino Funeral Home, Berlin Boro, NJ

Biography

 

Doelling,
Francy Anne

(nee Wasilewski) On November 17, 2011 of Cedarbrook, NJ. Age 39 years. Beloved wife of Matthew. Devoted mother of Madison. Loving daughter of Andrew (Skip) Wasilewski and the late Frances (nee DiPietro). Dear sister of Ginger Luttrell and Michael Wasilewski and his wife Bernadette. Francy was a Dental Assistant, Jewelry Saleswoman and most importantly a dedicated homemaker and mother. Relatives and friends are invited to attend her viewing Friday evening 7:00-9:00PM and Saturday morning 8:30-9:30AM at the COSTANTINO FUNERAL HOME 231 W. White Horse Pike Berlin, NJ 08009. Mass of Christian Burial will be celebrated 10:00AM Christ the Redeemer Parish, Assumption Church Atco, NJ. Cremation & Interment will be private. In lieu of flowers contributions to Deborah Heart & Lung Center 200 Trenton Rd. Browns Mills, NJ 08015 would be appreciated. For additional information or to email condolences:CostantinoFH.com.



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Shannon Hayes 2011-11-19 01:22:53
I don't even know where to begin.Francy was an incredible person and my family's heart aches for yours right now. Madison couldn't have two better angels on her side than Francy and Fran. Our deepest condolences to your family at this very difficult time.
Skip Wasilewski ( Daddy) 2011-11-19 01:23:43
MY Sweet Baby ...... God has ANOTHER ANGEL ..... Mommy is waiting to show you around... And I am waiting anxiously to join my girls in an everlasting life where there is no pain or suffering.... Send me your Love as I do to you ... Fancy, my baby, You touched everyone that ever met you ..... Including the man that was PROUD to be your FATHER .... me .... See you soon little girl ... .......XXXOOO Daddy
Denise & Bobby Rowand 2011-11-19 01:27:42
Wonderful memories of the annual car show at StoryBook Land. We will miss you, sweetheart. God Bless. xo
Linda & Philip Morris 2011-11-19 01:32:38
Dear sweet Francy, we will miss you, your lovely smile, your big heart. God Bless. Xo
Lauren Luttrell 2011-11-19 01:44:12
Fif fif fif. That's all I could ever spit out of my mouth when i was younger, when it came to saying francy. Everyone seemed to grow attached to the name so it became a keeper. We had so many good memories and laughs and things to talk about. Just hard to believe life can come & go so fast. No more suffering. She's happy flying with gangalina. Now I've got the two most beautiful angels looking over me. Forever my Fifi <3
Orlando and Marie Rivera 2011-11-19 13:26:53
Francy, such a warm and beautiful person. We are so grateful that our lives were touched by you. We will miss you. God Bless you, our dear friend. Love, Orlando and Marie
Virginia, Kathy, and James Foley 2011-11-19 15:47:21
Mrs. Doelling was always a great parent at our class partys. She was always upbeat and postive. Francy was always there for all of the kids and her family. We will never forget Mrs. Doelling!
Rick Daniels 2011-11-19 16:10:11
I ONCE HEARD THAT GOD LONES US THE ONES WE LOVE. MY HEART GOES OUT TO THE FAMILY. SKIPS FRIEND IN CHICAGO.
Steve Moorer 2011-11-20 01:43:07
Dear Skip, Our thoughts and prayers are with you. I can not imagine losing a child. Lean in God's arm and let him carry you
Madison 2011-11-20 02:06:01
I miss you Momma! I love you lots. You are the best Mommy ever. Have fun in heaven and stay with Gangy and Pop and Athena and everyone else. I will see you soon. Always watch over me and our family. Love and miss you very much!!! Can't wait to see you again! <3 you little peach
wayne bumm 2011-11-20 16:57:22
WE WILL MISS YOU FRANCY. WE HAD SOME GREAT TIMES WITH ARE FAMILYS. YOU WILL BE MISSED LOVE WAYNE , APRIL ,LILA BUMM ALWAYS IN ARE HEART.
Elayne & Joe Hill 2011-11-20 18:19:58
Words cannot express the anguish we feel. We are able to gain solace in the loving way Francy touched our hearts and lives. We are truely better people for knowing her. We Love You and Miss You, Elayne and Joe
Kristen (Virciglio) Blasko 2011-11-20 20:43:38
Francy and I had a lot of fun together when we were kids. I will cherish these memories of my beautiful friend. My prayers are with her family.
Liz Baluyot Bartolome 2011-11-21 06:36:31
I've known you since 3rd grade and you have always remained to be the sweet genuine girl I had first met..spending the last two months before you went to heaven has been nothing but a blast..it's been lonely without your crazy text and our late night phone calls, waiting for you to call and pick up where we left off! I miss you dearly but I know you are at a better place wearing pink wings for sure with your momma! And I'll end this message how you always signed off with me... I love you.. No I really love you!
Joe & Renee Rivera 2011-11-21 11:32:15
Our prayers are with you Skip and your family. May you receive the strength and guidance needed through this difficult time.
Nina 2011-11-21 14:30:00
My sincere condolences to Ginger & family. My prayers go out to you all.
Barb and Scott Householder 2011-11-21 17:14:58
Matt and Maddy, you have our deepest sympathies and are in our thoughts and prayers. God Bless.
Lon and Diana D'Adamo 2011-11-21 18:16:04
So sorry for your loss. Ginger and Lauren, our prayers are with you Lonnie and Diana
Paulette and George Hand 2011-11-21 18:23:34
Francy, your were such a wonderful person and we were so lucky to know you. You always lit up a room when you entered. You will be missed by many.
Theresa 2011-11-21 19:15:22
I just looked at her photo album and am sitting here crying. I am so sorry. Francie was the sweetest person and will be so missed.
Susan Harvey Ledger 2011-11-21 19:36:31
May you rest in peace. God bless.
pat Ilgenfritz 2011-11-21 22:24:01
I dont know where to start....in reading all these other memories there is one common thread...your sweetness ,,your smile, your kindness. I am gonna miss our long conversations, I cant believe your gone..but i know your in a much better place and not suffering. My prayers are going out for your beautiful sweet little girl and for Matt also...Luv you and Miss you,,Pat
Critelli Family 2011-11-21 23:08:28
Matt and Madison we are all so very sorry for your loss and will continue to pray for you in your time of sorrow.Words can never say enough.
Greg and Sharon Dunlap 2011-11-21 23:21:57
Matt and Maddy, we are sorry for your lost. May God comfort at this time. We are here if you need anything. God Bless, The Dunlaps
mike waz 2011-11-22 00:55:44
love you forever.you always kept the family together after mom past.hard job but you did it. love you lots.we will try to take good care of madi and mat.your doobie brother mike.
nicole caruso 2011-11-22 01:40:22
your memory will always remain close to my heart...u will surely be missed girlfriend...
Bill & Nicole McCormack 2011-11-22 02:33:34
Matt & Maddy - It breaks our hearts to think that such an amazing mother and wife was taken from you too soon! Just remember that that you'll always have a special angel looking over you from now on. We love you guys.
Billie Jo Shinn 2011-11-22 12:41:16
I can not believe you are gone my good friend Fancy Francy from Assumption. I will always hold your memory close to my heart. I will never forget all the good times we had as kids. Go carting behind your house hanging at the pool and riding bikes and going to the mall. So many memories to list. Your beatiful smile and funny little giggle will always be cherished. You will always be in my thoughts and prayers.
The Campisi Family 2011-11-22 14:28:09
Matt and Madison, We are still stunned at Francy’s sudden passing. No amount of “I’m so sorry for your loss” will dull the ache that is at the heart of everyone who knew your amazing wife and your most loving mom. You guys were everything to her and you have so many fond memories to keep her spirit alive. Please remember in the dark times, when your grief seems overwhelming, that as God is eternal, He is constantly creating which means His creation goes on. Francy is a part of His wonderful creation and as such, she too goes on. She will be right with you through all the happy and sad times of this life and will be waiting to see you again in the life we look forward to, which is eternal. Please feel free to lean on us if you need anything.
Cassie Harvey 2011-11-22 16:18:11
You always understood that this life was just a stop-over. Please help us to understand it...you will always be a breath away from us.
LINDA DIVINCENZO 2011-11-22 20:42:01
no words can ever express how very sorry I am to hear about Francy. What a warm, bubbly and upbeat person she was. God bless you Matt & Maddy - be strong - My thoughts and prayers are with you and your entire family!
Michael, Brother-in-Law 2011-11-23 01:18:51
Dearest Francy, Your heart wasn’t strong, but it was certainly big. You were the first sister I ever had and I couldn’t have asked for a better one! We had some great times together, took awesome trips, and had soul-searching talks. You were there to lean on when I needed it and that support made a world of difference, thank you! I will remember your laugh, your thoughtful way, and I’ll keep your light in my heart forever. “Don't cry because it's over. Smile because it happened.” - Dr. Seuss
fred(tazman)tarsatana 2011-11-23 02:21:44
My deepest condolences to mike and ginger and family such a sad day francy was a great person I remember when she used to come to shop n bag to visit her grandmother she always was so pleasant plus she loved to show her mercury cougar these are just some of the things I remember I could go on for days gone too soon you will be greatly missed but never forgotten
Kristi (Fabrizio) Moritz 2011-11-23 06:32:28
Dear Wasilewski & Doelling Families, My heart is breaking for your family, such a difficult loss to comprehend. Please know that you will ALL continue to be in my daily thoughts & prayers! Francy, you are an amazing & wonderful girl. I will always remember the assumption days, the 'waz girls'.. you & ginger with your long blonde hair & sweet smile! All who had the pleasure of knowing you, will forever hold the memory of your sparkling, beautiful smile & bubbly personality in their hearts! I know you are with your mom.. please tell her "hello" from me. Also, could you please give Zeke a hug for me too.. as I'm sure he was there to greet you as well! <3 God Bless you, Francy.. you will be forever loved & missed!! Love & Hugs, Kristi & Family and the Fabrizio Family too
April Lathrope 2011-11-23 07:00:40
Matt, my prayers are with you and your family.
Chrissy Glen 2011-11-23 07:08:58
Dear Matt, Madison and the rest of the family, Our worst fear is upon us, we all thought it, sometimes it came up in conversation, but none of us could have prepared for Francy's passing. My heart aches, I can't hold back the tears. I regret, regret not being there by her side in the hospital. I found out the day after. Francy & I were Best Friends for almost 14 years. Gosh so much has happened, so many fun memories that all started in the condo parking lot and continued as we all continued growing up, moving and having children. She believed her daughter can do anything she put her mind too. So proud of all of Madison's accomplishments, she would be so excited to tell me, that we always talked about them first. She knew Matt would always love her and she he. Matt you know she thought of you as an excellent provider and she was so proud that you went after your dream and didn't stop until you achieved it even on those lonely nights when she & I were on the phone late while you were at boot camp. She loved you two like no other, you were the subject of many of our conversations. Whenever I was with Francy, you two weren't far away, there was always such life and fun she brought into the time we spent together. Madison, you have that part of your mom in you...the fun life of the party smile that everyone loves. Francy was all of those and even more, she was an amazing best friend to me. I couldn't have asked for a better fit. There was never a time we got together where we didn't have trouble making fools of ourselves because we were laughing so hard and just having fun wherever we went. I want to be there for both of you, please. Not just now, but forever. I love you all! Rest in Peace Francy! I miss you already!! xoxo
howard creamer 2011-11-23 23:05:20
My deepest sympathy to your family, Will remember the car show's with your family....
Robert Iuliucci 2011-11-24 14:16:40
I don't know to say my heart aches with Francy passing. I have know her for over 30 years, beautiful child, a beautiful woman with a beautiful family. I love you and will miss you. May you rest in Gods arms.
Geno and Vicki Johnson 2011-11-24 14:43:53
We had the honor of meetin Francy and her wonderful family when they visited us last April. Francy was a wonderful, caring person who found joy in everything and everyone around her. Her premature passing is difficult to accept but we are truly blessed that we had the opportunity to get to know her. She will be greatly missed!
Wayne and Patti Bumm 2011-11-25 00:51:47
Matt and Madison and extended families. No words can express the sorrow we feel. Fancy always had a smile on her face. We all will miss her but never will forget. The Bumm's
Christy Kirk 2011-11-25 12:00:00
Francy was a great mother, wife, daughter and friend. She had the best laugh. Even though she had a small voice, she was not afraid to use it or fight for what she wanted. She will truly be missed. We love you so much. Please keep an eye on your family and us. My thoughts and prayers go out to Matt and Madison and all of her family.
Jack Austin 2011-11-25 14:34:31
Remember her from when she was so young. May her family find peace and strength in their faith.
Olivia Hess 2011-11-25 17:56:12
Madison, I'm so sorry about what happened. Everyone in school is praying for you, your dad and your mom. And I know I've only been at our school for two years but I meet you mom a lot and she was soooo nice and such a great person. I'm so sorry. :( I can't wait for you to come back to school.
Michelle Rourke Kehoe 2011-11-25 18:30:46
Dear Matt, Madison, Wasilewski, and Doelling families: Since learning of Francy's passing, I have struggled to find words to express my sympathy. I found myself laughing through tears so often these past few days, reflecting on our days at SJHS. Many of them, I can't share but, perhaps a few will bring a smile & some comfort. Francy was a great friend, confidant, and co-conspirator. Her laughter was contagious. Driving with Francy, was often an adventure. She would sing AND dance while driving, as if she was on a stage. She could get us from Atco to Hammonton in less than 12 minutes. She could laugh at herself --especially if she had a "blonde moment". We shared some of life's biggest occasions together, too. We were bridesmaids in each others wedding. She was THRILLED to become a wife and mother -- a role she wouldn't have traded that for the world. The first time I met Madison, Francy was awestruck at this tiny little miracle the she and Matt had created. I will never, ever forget that. Seeing my dearest friend looking at her baby girl with such love and appreciation will stay with me forever. She treasured her family and friends and loved you all fiercely. Francy and I lost touch over the years, but she was never far from my thoughts. She has and always will occupy a special place in my heart. I miss my friend. I feel blessed for having had her in my life for even a brief time. I hope you can find comfort in the happy memories. I think that's what she would have wanted for all of us: Live life to the fullest and love each other always. I'm so, so sorry for your loss.
Beth, Herb, and Grace Watson 2011-11-25 20:44:01
We will always have such fond sweet memories of Francy. She was always a beautiful person and a joy to be around. Our deepest condolences to all of her family. We will miss her greatly.
Kim Hess 2011-11-25 21:13:33
To Matt & Madison, words cannot descride how sorry we are for your loss. She always had a smile on her face and was one of the nicest people we've ever met. If there is ANYTHING we can do for you & your family at this trying time, please let us know. You are in our thoughts & prayers. God Bless you!!
Uncle Bob & Alice 2011-11-25 22:29:16
Francy was a warm and loving person with a smile for everyone. We loved her dearly and will miss her greatly.
Bernadette Tourtual 2011-11-25 22:32:52
Matt and Madison, I can hardly believe that Francy has died. I am so sorry. Words cannot express my sadness at her passing. I did not know you all very well but as a friend of Matt's Mom Barb Doelling, I heard about the major events in your lives. You are in my prayers at this sad time and I will continue to pray for your strength and courage in the days to come. Peace and blessings, Bernie
Aunt Judy and Cousins 2011-11-26 03:25:16
We will miss your beautiful face and your wonderful spirit! I'm so glad we were able to spend that special time together at Anna's wedding. (what seemed like a disaster has become a blessing..so glad for that broken zipper now) My biggest regret is that we didn't have more time to get to know each other better...You did a great job raising Madison and I'm sure she will go on and do great things! So glad you were married to a great guy..love always
Bernadette, Gabe and Olivia 2011-12-02 00:44:25
Aunt Francy, What are we going to do without you?? You are such an amazing person, we will miss you so much. You are a little sister to our Mom, and an incredible Aunt to us; it will be very hard to continue without you. You are the closest person to our me-mom. We wish you peace and light. You are forever in our prayers. The Michael Wasilewski's